Instead of looking for an unforgettable experience, become one.

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Being “confident” is literally that – a state of BEing.

And it’s fucking sexy. Oh, did you think sexy was how you looked? No, no, no, my friend. Sexy is state of BEing, just like confidence. These are energetic flows you get into – inside of your body.

Do you:

Struggle with insecurity and self-doubt?
Want to STOP worrying about what others will think of you, say to you?
Wish you could stop pendulating between confident and insecure?
Wish you could feel the sexiness and power of confidence pulsing through you?
Want to feel at home in your body, happy in your own skin?

Then you need to understand what true confidence really is, how to get to it, and how to keep it flowing. It is not what you’ve been sold. NOTHING outside of you can MAKE you confident, sexy, attractive, desirable…


These qualities are energetic expressions that only come from your body, which is why it doesn’t matter how well you perfect the external presentation, the internal message from your core is still speaking volumes over your outward appearance.

Confidence Coaching helps you clear away the bullshit beliefs that are keeping you stuck in insecurity and preventing you from walking in the real juiciness of who you are.

It’s my passion to walk in the true understanding of confidence, what being sexy really is, and embodying these states of BEing – because I FEEL LIKE MYSELF when I do. I feel alive, free from the weight of what others think, powerfully liberated from the shitty feeling of not being _____enough. I am fucking sick and tired of accepting less for myself, and I want the same for you – when you are ready for it.

Are you:

  • Tired AF of feeling insecure in your body, worrying about what others think, and unable to FEEL sexy and confident?
  • Frustrated with feeling held back by your own shit, are fully ready to deal with the BS to break through into confidence – the real you
  • Unwilling to live without confidence, freedom, happiness, and passion – deeply loving who you are, what you do, and who you’re with

Listen. I am on this journey every single day. This is a journey I LIVE out in my own life. I am working this out continually because this isn’t a magic one and done pill. It is deciding, owning, shifting, surrendering, and taking your sexy back

Recapturing your true self is the only way to walk in true confidence. Personal transformation is ultimately up to whether or not you make the decision to cross the line of demarcation, where you are all in for yourself.

Where you no longer give a fuck what others think at the cost of how YOU FEEL inside of you and about you.

I don’t claim to have all the answers for you because I know better. Unlocking the mystery of you can’t happen without your full participation. That means you are ready to show up, open up, and go on a journey to find the you that you left behind.


I’m so honored that you are here.

My passion is to inspire others to CONFIDENCE MASTERY through an integrated understanding of identity and the power of decision. The most powerful form of confidence is embodied, not merely understood, and certainly not enacted. From that place, we are able to share our greatest contributions and to live our best lives.
How YOU see yourself changes everything.
True CONFIDENCE MASTERY will restore and expand your life in all 5 main areas by first restoring your relationship to YOU. (These areas are: relationships, finances, spirituality, sexuality and your physical being/expressed self.) True identity, confidence, and wholeness shift you into the full-body YES you’ve been longing to feel in any area of life that you desire to see change.
I don’t sit back and tell you what to do, I am living this for myself. From the space of – we are in this thing together, I exhort you to become the man or woman you desire to be. I walk with you through your process, so that you can experience what embodying the real you FEELS like, until it becomes natural to be nothing but who you really are. Read more.

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The information in this book is foundational to knowing how a man who has MASTERED confidence thinks, feels, and acts – especially when it comes to attracting the woman of his dreams.

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I know who the fuck I am. I teach others to know this for themselves. It’s what I was born to do. I am here to remind you. (We all forget sometimes, myself included.) When you get into my energy and presence through my work, you WILL experience this confidence tangibly – you will FEEL it. And, if you start embodying it for yourself, you can be, do, have what it is you desire.

“Instead of looking for an unforgettable experience, become one.”

You go where few people are willing to tread. And what you do is superb. You are brave, confident, and can see clearly into dark places.


Colette helped to guide to through the process and deal with the insecurities that came up. Colette was fully present to me, went above and beyond to help me process through my emotions. Having her as a support system will ensure that you are confident and prepared through the whole process. She will help to pull out your vision… She pays attention to every detail and will help to inspire you along the way. Colette is the Queen of confidence and her energy is contagious. She was fully present. This has been one of the most confidence boosting things I have ever done. I would highly recommend for anyone who wants to boost their confidence and get clear…

Katie Marie , Katie Marie VIP

You are such an amazing woman. Following my heart, taking a leap, taking your advice, stop being held back. Because!


I just had to tell you that you spoke wonderful wisdom into my life. You are truly…in your gifting. Lord Bless Your Gifting! It’s so needed!!


That is my girl right there!!!!! Power house!! Watch out world here she comes!! You are amazing!


…You are leading the forefront to help us learn and understand our true selves.


You speak to the very core of the true identity of a woman.


Lioness arising to set the captives free! You are a carrier of truth to answer the lies and silence the fears.


Just wanted to say I really appreciate the ways you talk about faith, spirituality, God, sex, and sexuality as inclusive things. As you said, there is a vulnerability that needs to be faced, accepted, and celebrated…the world definitely needs more courageous and creative people like you.


…You, in a perfect way, break the stereotype with your confidence. I pledge to your revolution!


Colette was amazing. I wouldn’t have ever dared to take the leap if it weren’t for her…She is a phenomenal creative….she was able to help me get out of my own way. I didn’t know how to convey ME and my brand and my energy…She is so patient, understanding, and amazing at drawing the vision out of you and helping you form it into a practical plan. She gave me the courage and the confidence I needed. These are things that have stayed with me long after…and they have made me a better entrepreneur. If it weren’t for her, I never would have taken action. Thank you Colette!!



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